RECYCLED "SHE COMES FIRST" TOTE BAG

After years of conversations with women I kept hearing the same story in different words: “I’ve never had an orgasm with my long-term partner.” Or: “Maybe once. Maybe.” Or: “It’s just… not a thing for me.” And every time, I felt this mix of sadness and anger. Because it’s not that women “can’t” orgasm. It’s that in so many relationships, their pleasure simply isn’t centered.

That’s how “She Comes First” was born. A T-shirt that’s not shy, not polite, not quiet. The orgasm gap is real: studies with tens of thousands of participants show that men orgasm in 70–85% of sexual encounters, while women are at 46–58%. And behind these numbers are real people, real women who deserve better.

This shirt is my little rebellion, and hopefully yours too. A reminder that women’s pleasure is not optional, not secondary, not a “bonus.” It’s essential. It’s valid. And it should come first. Wear it for yourself. Wear it for every woman who’s ever been told her pleasure is “complicated.” Wear it because we’re done with that narrative.

• 80% organic recycled Cotton, 20% recycled Polyester 300 G/M²
• Global Reycled Standard certified
• Vegan certified
• FAIR produced (Fair Wear Foundation)
• Non-toxic (OEKO-TEX®-certified)
• Water-based handmade transfer print

• Wash similar colours together, do not iron on print, wash and iron inside out
• Not suitable for tumble drying
• Do not dry clean
• Iron moderately hot
• Do not bleach
• 30°C easy-care wash

We ship (plastic-free packed in a recycled paper) within 1 business day after the order.
Delivered by: DHL GoGreen - 100% climate neutral
Shipping fee: €5.49
Free shipping over €100 DE

You can return your items within 14 days.
Return fee: Standard return costs €5.49
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